Man! Race with woman
Now Cinema is more on glitter and gloss
and little on frailties and foibles.
Now woman is more on glamour and ease
and little on fidelities and commitment.
Men must be more on leniency and laxity
and little on watch-dogging and possessiveness.
Marriage will be redundant and out dated soon
A father will be dispensable as a bull to a cow;
men will be more in agony and less in harmony.16.12.2001, pakd
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About possessiveness
No mind to lend
Is material possessiveness.
To interfere with others
Is personal possessiveness.
To spy your spouse
Is sexual possessiveness.
To catch others’ eyes
Is name possessiveness.
To will to live post death
Is self possessiveness.
The last one is the strongest
With crippling effects.
26.04.2010
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The single mother
The word bastard has lost its stigma.
Having child without marriage is no more a sin
Single motherhood has come as a welcome sign.
The yoke of marriage is dispensed with.
The word chastity has lost its meaning.
Having affairs is not construed as shame.
No need of pre or extra marital.
The yoke of commitment is dispensed with.
The word husband has lost its standing.
No need of a man to head a family.
Sex without obligation is his blessing.
The yoke of monogamy is dispensed with.
The word father has lost its identity.
The pleasure of servility is gone.
To work for posterity is stripped.
The yoke of sweat is dispensed with.
The word mother has retained its strength.
Pleasure of her identity is established.
Possessiveness of woman is not threatened.
The yoke of bondage is dispensed with.
Man and woman are as free as cave men.
Variety in sex keeps their lust feeding.
Want of companionship will doom their end.
The yoke of orphanage will soon threaten.
01.09.2010
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Man cannot be chaste.
One bull can manage ten cows.
One cow cannot stand ten bulls.
A woman is at ease to be chaste.
To be so is man’s distaste
29.05.2001, Berh
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Sex in relation
No affinity sustains
Between man and man
And between woman and woman.
It will retain
Between man and woman.
One man is the rival of another.
One woman is the envy of another.
Same sexes are friendly on needs.
Sex is the key.
24.11.2001, Pakd
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Be a lady, woman.
Clothed, a woman looks better.
Distant, a woman looks nicer.
Formidable, a woman looks richer.
Forbidden, a woman looks sexier.
A lady befits all.
08.12.2001, pakd
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Where lies beauty?
Modesty enhances
and glamour reduces,
Muteness enhances
and openness reduces,
Formidability enhances
and accessibility reduces,
Prudence enhances
and hollowness reduces,
Reliability enhances
and camouflage reduces,
The beauty of a woman
To the eyes of men
16.12.2001, pakd
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Possessiveness In Love
Sexual love is possessive to the core.
Man and woman entangle each other.
Man's possessiveness is for custody.
Woman's possessiveness is for a siege.
It's man's struggle to get a woman.
It's woman's struggle to cage him in.
He gives her money; she gives him honey.
She wants comfort and he wants loyalty.
Any intrusion will invite violence.
Suspicion is fatal to relation.
Woman is capable of handling it
By sheer show of virtue and prtence.
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Every wife intrigues
Too high a mountain to ignore,
Too deep a sea to notice,
Is a woman, a beautiful woman.
Never did her husband die
Without having her as a suspect.
26.11.2001, Pakd
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Marriage is irrevocable bond.[India]
Kovelon, in love and arts an acumen,
Had as consort, Kannakhi of his commune,
Won as beloved, Madhavi, a courtesan,
And left her, to return to pavilion.
Kannakhi’s love for him was devotional.
Kovelon’s in return was conventional.
His love for Madhavi was passion ridden.
Madhavi’s love in turn was emotional.
Madhavi was deserted and forgotten.
But she did not desert the ill gotten.
She stayed single against her frailties,
And surpassed Kannakhi in all chastity.
Love of passion and love of emotion
Are for harmony a better combination.
Love of convenience and of devotion
Hardly can contribute to its elevation.
What made Kovelon return to Kannakhi,
A woman with no art and romance?
The marriage is irredeemable bond
Above flesh, where return all prodigal men.
27.05.2001, Pmdi.
[This is the summery of a Tamil historical classic, Silappathikaram, written more than a millennium]
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Don’t waste time and energy.
When a thing is hard to get,
You set out to get it.
When such things go aplenty,
At your door steps,
To it, you turn your back
And, then turn repulsive.
Woman of glamour and
Woman of beauty do this,
Fed up with swarming men.
Don’t waste your time and energy.
28.04.2002, pakd
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The old Couple is the dearest.
Love between spouses
Begins by their flesh,
Clings by their kids,
Slackens by monotony,
Hangs by necessity,
And eventually
Sticks by invalidity
Of their old age.
A marriage is hard to break.
02.10.2001, Pakd
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Be a provider, to love.
Some one strong, big or rich
Only, a woman wants,
For thrust, hold and comfort.
Least is a handsome man.
05.12.2001, Pakd
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Malady of man
To wander, to seek, to spot,
To know, to get attention,
To have talks and company,
To think, visualize and recollect,
To help, to earn good will,
And to live on bundles of memories
Are harmless pleasures,
Each man derives from woman.
Woman is the net earner.
20.12.2001, pakd
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Woman, be a hard nut
The latest hit song is devoid
Of interest by its repetition.
The less heard ones manage to stay.
Keep with men space and time,
To keep your glamour, dear woman.
Be away but not far away.
05.02.2002, Pakd
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Lust is fire.
Be she a metal, coal or oil,
No woman is immune to combustion of lust.
Intensity and duration of flame determine.
Woman is chaste by force.
Lust and fire are consumers.
16.10.2001, Pakd
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Lust is fire
Be she a metal, coal or oil,
No woman is immune to combustion of lust.
Intensity and duration of flame determine.
Woman is chaste by force.
Lust and fire are consumers.
16.10.2001, Pakd
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Nearness fevours
A woman is a hard coated seed,
Needing moisture and heat to sprout.
A man alone extends them.
The one who has him near is fortunate.
23.11.2001, Pakd
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Man to be a man to women
A manly man is erotic
in stimulating a woman.
He takes her to heaven.
A womanly man is erotic
in being stimulated by a woman.
She sends him to heaven.
24.11.2001, Pakd
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Give her freedom of love
Many a woman you might have courted.
Did you succeed in getting any?
Let many men woo your woman.
No one can succeed in getting her.
Women are interested for company,
The least for sex. Ignore it for harmony.
25.04.2002, pakd
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Cute of sense
An ear for music endears any tune.
An eye for art enjoys any form.
A tongue for food relishes any stuff.
So is lust for woman, for any age.
18.11.2001, Pakd
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