Impersonal Third Person Invitations

I've never been into,
Impersonal third person invitations.
With expectations that I participate,
In the enjoyment of activities.
I believe if someone wants me,
To appear in their environment personally...
At least that wish to me 'personally',
Should from them be extended.

'You didn't show.
And we expected you.'

I didn't receive from 'you' an invitation.